Adults with Assertive

Assertive is one of the elements contained in the nature of manhood, while we know that the "Adult" physical or psychological is ideal for audiences who can say to change their attitude in all things for the better. at this time I want to discuss about what is and how to be assertive in order to be mature. Often we are criticized for being our immaturity was not deemed suitable to do, it often makes us a "down" or "desperate", it is natural especially if this happens to men, because according to research, real men is a child trapped in a grown man's body, eit! but for the men who read this do not jump in front of the woman's pessimism had been ... although described as a small boy trapped in a man's body also did the adult women often face the hassles that in fact the men as "the little boy trapped in a man's body" hahaha ... The following therefore is the understanding and the characteristics of assertive nature that we can be adults (Don't worry. The following article for all, hehehe ...); Assertive is the attitude that has an element such as honest, open, true, mature, pro-active, and responsible so that it can be said to be assertive, we must be able and willing to have these elements so do not expect assertiveness can be owned by people who feel self is not useful, depending on others, fail, reactive, and always one perceives that these attitudes are wrong self-image, why? because it can be seen that the attitudes are owned by people who always thought negativ when we know that adult men who can always think positively. To be assertive, we must have a tips / how to change ourselves to become more assertive, the following tips / how; 1. Changing yourself first, then change the other person. 2. Maintaining relationships and immediate repair of damaged relationships. 3. Assertiveness pass. 4. Perception binoculars: -if there are negative issues that look a little wear glasses so that our problems will seem small compared to the journey of our life long -Positive things look great wearing glasses that will be great and will always be remembered. 5. Consistent but remain realistic. 6. Berkompromilah because sometimes necessary. Whew was no way to become an adult? of course there are younger kids .. hahaha .. for me, we all have to be assertive because if we are being assertive we can directly handling conflict and criticism, Assessing the condition, Assessing the wrong strategy, systematic approach, assessing the work of personal and potential abilities. In addition assertive nature can also make our self-esteem grow stronger, to realize our own responsibilities, accelerate the development of self and makes us rarely blame others. Well, to become adults is not difficult, that is going to transform themselves into assertive. I hope this article can be a guideline to be for all (but if you do not agree to serve as guidelines also okay, not all have the right of each, right? hoho ..), saying the end I said, Lets Grow Up! (From a collection of articles my dad, hehehe ...)